OF COURSE you're going to have your awesome wedding night and head out on your honeymoon...but there are other "after the ceremony" details that need to be checked off your list! Here are a few essentials:
1. Preserve Your Flowers ~There is absolutely no better way to remember your dream wedding on a daily basis than to have flowers from your bouquet preserved in an encasement that reflects your personal style. For a truly unique gift for your mother, grandmother, or brides maids, consider having a small dome or ornament made just for them!
2. Preserve Your Gown ~Did you know that your gown will yellow over time if it is not properly preserved? The "protective" bags that the dry cleaner uses will actually cause stains over time. Proper museum-quality preservation through a reputable company is well worth its cost, and is actually very affordable. Getting your gown properly preserved shows that you truly cherish your dream dress.
3. Return Rented Tuxedos ~Designate one person to be your "return" go-to source. Have all the tuxes given to that person and returned together. This could be the best man or another family member. Make sure that the tux shop knows who will be coming, and that the designated "returnee" knows if there is a refund situation.
4. Finalize Gift Registries ~Do you need to add to the partially purchased China or Silverware? Are you still waiting for that order from Aunt Mabel? Did you get gift cards that you want to apply toward your registered wish list? Finalizing your gift registry will help you prepare for the next item on your list...
5. Write and Send Thank You Notes ~Proper ettiquette calls for hand-written thank you notes referencing the gift given. This task can be designated to a family member or a paid service, but make sure that you give them an accurate list of gift items and a current address list.
6. Change Your Name ~Once you officially change your surname, there are many places where you need to make this official. Bank accounts, drivers' licenses, car registration, Social Security, the IRS...the list can be quite daunting. Other folks have done all the legwork to gather a comprehensive list of forms. Using a pre-made kit will save you time and headaches!